Listen, I know I said I was going to post lesson plans here, I’m working on it okay? But I have so many other teacher thoughts swirling around in my ever-running brain that these posts keep taking precedence over the lesson plans. But they’re coming. I promise!
Over the last few days I’ve found myself consistently talking about my experiences as a teacher (whether that was against the will of whomever I was speaking to is beside the point). These conversations have broken some thoughts free that I want to share.
- You are not your mentor teacher. My mentor teacher was truly one of the best teachers I’ve ever seen in action. Nearing the end of her career, she had mastered that nurturing yet stern personality all successful teachers seem to have. I compared myself to her every year for my first 3 years teaching. But you know what I realized? I’m not Mrs. Taylor and that’s okay! She’s amazing, but just because my teaching approach is different, and I’m a little less nurturing and a lot more sarcastic does not mean I’m less of a teacher than her. Don’t compare yourself to veteran teachers when you’re still trying to figure out who you are as a teacher yourself.
- Bad days are only days. I’ve seen a lot of teachers perpetuate a cycle of constant negativity in this career. If you let whatever happened Monday affect your mood on Friday? That’s a you problem my friend. Troubleshoot whatever the problem was that made your day suck and move on from it. Hell, maybe even learn from it.
- Always do a Sunday reset. I realize that this is slowly turning into an advice column. That wasn’t what I intended when I started but whatever I’m just going to go with it. I can’t tell you how much better my weeks got when I started focusing on Sundays being productive and rewarding. Every Sunday I make a “to clean” list and a “to do” list and these lists consist of everything I need to get done to make my Monday morning easier. For example, pack lunches is always on my to do list. My to clean list is probably absurdly long to the average human but I like my house to be in great condition at the start of the week, it clears my head. That’s just an example of my reset. Becky, the teacher down the hall could go to yoga and brunch with her besties as her Sunday reset and that’s excellent too! Whatever clears your mind and has you feeling positive for the start of the week.
- Grading at home is for the birds. Don’t do it people! I know you feel like you don’t have time at school. And if you’re like me and have, at several times in your career, had upwards of 160 essays to grade you know it’s not realistic to cram that into your prep periods (if you get them). But my advice is to take them to your favorite coffee shop or get with a teacher buddy and pick a fun place to sit down and grade together. Commiserate if you will. Just don’t take away from your home zen with crap from work. Remember my post about not getting burnt out? Yeah, add this to the list of ways to avoid that.
- The big kicker: They won’t all like you. Man when I started teaching, whether I would admit it or not, the students liking me was a big priority. I knew from my practicum and student teaching that building relationships was pivotal when it came to having success with lessons and engagement. But I didn’t really realize it’s impossible to be liked by 150 little humans. They won’t all like you, your personalities may clash, and that’s okay! Do not waste your energy getting Tommy to finally laugh at one of your jokes. Worry about supporting your students in any way they’ll let you, not being homecoming queen (The Teacher’s Version).
Well I guess that’s it for what’s on my mind today. I’ll post that lesson plan soon. But for now, see ya later!